The post that was originally here hasn't gone away - it's been withdrawn for editing after I received a gentle and kindly reminder that I was leaving myself open to legal action for breaching 'client confidentiality'.
In a nutshell, it hinges on a rather loose definition of what is a 'client' is apparently. I'm told such an action would be likely to fail, but horribly expensive for me to fight. As I have a great deal of respect for the advisor, I decided it best not to put my stubborn head on. This time.
I should have been a no-win, no-fee lawyer. I really should. Sigh.